When we're helpers, there is a tendency to want to spare people from their own discomfort, but what we can do is help them to experience it without their layer of shame and shape it into fuel to create change. This is pretty much my work. #boundaries #healthyboundaries
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  • randi.buckleyWhen we're helpers, there is a tendency to want to spare people from their own discomfort, but what we can do is help them to experience it without their layer of shame and shape it into fuel to create change. This is pretty much my work. #boundaries #healthyboundaries

  • brigittelyonsI've had to learn this with my clients. Early on, I wanted to shelter them from the discomfort of working through the mess that's at the beginning of my process. Now I acknowledge that it's going to be tough at first but that they'll be so much better positioned on the other side.
  • shila.soniThis is why I love your work 🙌🏽P.S. Also because you are the 🐝 knees.
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