I am finding that as I get older my friendships are weakening.
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As my best friend used to say “there are the kind of fish that are on the surface and hang out up near the top of things and there are the bottom dwellers, down in the murk, we are those kind of fish, the fish that swim deep.” Now I agree with this woman completely but even she is not my best friend anymore. We are all starting to really do our thing and put ourselves, our jobs, our partners, our parents and our dogs in front of spending time with each other.
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  • emeliasfI am finding that as I get older my friendships are weakening.
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    As my best friend used to say “there are the kind of fish that are on the surface and hang out up near the top of things and there are the bottom dwellers, down in the murk, we are those kind of fish, the fish that swim deep.” Now I agree with this woman completely but even she is not my best friend anymore. We are all starting to really do our thing and put ourselves, our jobs, our partners, our parents and our dogs in front of spending time with each other.

  • joyellebrandtI get that. This time of life is hard on our friendships. It's hard to stay connected when there are so many demands on us. Also, we are changing, and maybe not always in the same direction.
  • prime_robimusTELL ME ABOUT IT
  • prime_robimus(try being single at this age...frack)
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