Yes you can't help who you love when the person clears all the right checklists, treat you right and love you right. It should be hard to say no to that when it's true. But don't use that excuse for settling for terrible relationships. You can control that in most cases, you can control who you love. By not investing time and energy in the wrong people. By not giving yourself room to become emotionally attached to them. By not ignoring the bad fruits in their life that clearly screams "run" at you. You have to purposely keep yourself from being in a position that will allow you to become emotionally attached to people you aren't supposed to be with. Some people can consistently say no to someone who is nothing but good to them, imagine how much more you can say no to someone who is bad to you.
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  • gentlemenhoodYes you can't help who you love when the person clears all the right checklists, treat you right and love you right. It should be hard to say no to that when it's true. But don't use that excuse for settling for terrible relationships. You can control that in most cases, you can control who you love. By not investing time and energy in the wrong people. By not giving yourself room to become emotionally attached to them. By not ignoring the bad fruits in their life that clearly screams "run" at you. You have to purposely keep yourself from being in a position that will allow you to become emotionally attached to people you aren't supposed to be with. Some people can consistently say no to someone who is nothing but good to them, imagine how much more you can say no to someone who is bad to you.

  • miss_elmAmen!!!
  • smrjj⚒💯💯
  • blupoo914🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
  • lexismiley@bryce_weinrich
  • mcain1980Maybe they gave us something we didn't know we needed and that's where the emotions take over. I had never heard this said before nor had I ever considered it.
  • just.neti@_jamiecelestial. Sparks are reactions to certain forces coming together. The person in question may have the chemical capacity to ignite a spark, but the environmental conditions are not conducive for that spark to happen. Let it breath and see where it goes from there. Also keep praying.
  • mamabinxieI feel this way about soda pop #TrueStory 😳
  • b_infinitlee🙋😔
  • 12cinabwinTrue true true. 🤛🏾
  • littlelady5885@tyneetune this.
  • melnillabash🙌🏾👏🏾
  • tyneetuneOmg! @littlelady5885 wow so needed this
  • corinne.mck@meganmckibban matt.
  • pgibbs93@gentlemenhood I think you can help who and what you are attracted too but I don't think you can help who you fall for that's why my parents say don't date someone you would plan to marry because if you Fall in love ....well
  • bambie628@maylynne where was this quote when I needed it lol
  • tianna_renee24Thank you @gentlemenhood this is much needed (and appreciated)!
  • abbymportilloI don't think you can help who u love but just cause you love them doesn't mean you have to be with them. I still love him always will but I won't let that into my life anymore
  • mia_solaThat was my story and I decided to love myself more...no regrets!
  • caseycmoneWow... soooo good.. definitely needed this 🙏🏻
  • junyinCe coba baca ini baik" 🤔 @meryconamerang
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