onefrazzledmumA few weeks back I was ready to quit this blogging malarkey. But with the help of some amazing friends I bounced back. Why did I want to give up? My latest post (blog link in the bio) is all about how I was faced with a huge backlash after a personal experience was turned into a post and shared online. In that post it was claimed I believed I had the right to full blog post idea exclusivity. What happened next was akin to playground bullying. Snide remarks. People tearing me apart and using words to describe me like arrogant, obnoxious, ridiculous and pathetic to name a few. As I scrolled past all these words appearing on my twitter timeline I became defeated. Lost and shamed into believing I was wrong. I was wrong. I trusted the wrong people and ended up being convicted of a crime I hadn't committed by a jury of my blogging peers. I wrote other blog posts before this one. It took a lot of courage for me to post this one. But I needed to. For me. For the truth and more importantly for all those like me who are judged and subjected to this kind of thing online. It's not fair. It's not right and it needs to stop. So I urge you before start condemning people and their actions based on one side of the story. Stop and think. What if it was you. How would you feel if you saw someone else saying the things you are saying about you. Just think do they really deserve this. #kcacols #northwestbloggers #parentblogger #ukparentbloggers #honestwriting #sticksandstones #onlinebullying #saynotobullying #stoponlinehate #thinkbeforeyoupost #thetruthwillout #honestblogposts #keepingitreal #standupforwhatyoubelievein #nomorejudging #lifestylebloggers #bloggerslife #bloglife #lifeofablogger
- mylifelongholidayOh dear, I had no idea. I feel your pain at utter disappointment at a friendship, I had a pretty bad time with a supposed good friend last year, and it hurts. For a long time. Keep your chin up though chick!
- sands_heard*Hugs* I'm so glad you didn't give up blogging in the end honey.xx
- onefrazzledmum@mylifelongholiday it's sad when friendships don't turn out the way you want them to isn't it. Thank you x
- onefrazzledmum@sands_heard thanks lovely xx
- confidentlymumIt must have been tough to express the disappointment and upset you felt over this in such a well balanced, adult fashion - I think you did a great job in the post, and to your credit I still have no idea who you are talking about so you are clearly above mud slinging and petty online nastiness. Don't even think about giving up - you write beautifully. Onwards and upwards 😊👍🏼😉
- s1mpl3tonLove your content! 👍
- alicemegan1993Ohhh babe keep your head up or that crown will fall 🌟👸🏻 xx
- onefrazzledmumThank you so much @confidentlymum I kept it until I could talk about it calmly and rationally. There's been enough nastiness without me adding to it. We live and learn and despite the reason for writing I am proud of this post xx
- onefrazzledmum@alicemegan1993 head is up and Crown intact 😉 thanks lovely 😘😘 xx
- alicemegan1993Gunna be blogging more this year so I'll be popping over much more too 😘 xx
- onefrazzledmum@alicemegan1993 yay! I've missed you being around. I'm going to try and not be so flaky this year. Stepping it up a notch hopefully full time by the end of the year xx
- alicemegan1993@onefrazzledmum wow wow you've come so far missus! I'm super flaky haha full time work and blogging don't always go hand in hand (not when my nights are now spent dating with the single life 😂🙈) but I'm determined to make a proper show this year xx
- onefrazzledmum@alicemegan1993 I know what you mean. I couldn't blog properly when I worked full time. Just about manage it working part time but I may not have a job soon (redundancies) so I need to make a go of this. I need to catch up with some of your dating stories. The last post I read made me laugh 😂😂 xx
- alicemegan1993@onefrazzledmum haha oh lord that's by far the censored version 😂 I need to get the next part wrote but hell some of the stories I've gathered are horrendous 😂😂 oh noo! Well silver lining to the redundancy hopefully it'll mean you can make a go at blogging! The little push needed xx
- onefrazzledmum@alicemegan1993 🙊😂😂😂 I can imagine lol. I refuse to date again I just couldn't cope with it. Single forever for me haha. You need to let me know when you've posted more! And yes for the redundancy it is doing just that xx
- alicemegan1993@onefrazzledmum haha well it's weird I was always in a relationship so this is like the first adult single experience I've had it's certainly a rollercoaster 😂 but so far still enjoying it. Aww well i hope it all works out lovely your blogs come on so far so I reckon it will! xx
- onefrazzledmum@alicemegan1993 haha I bet it's a rollercoster dating isn't for the faint hearted is it! Thanks for your support I can't believe how much I've achieved last year with it. Looking forward to more this year xx
- chirpydebsSounds like online bullying to me. Will pop over and check it out later x
- elmaniquivintageBuen gusto!
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